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Thursday, October 19, 2006

Minor Problems

I have been close to my mother, but we never talked much about things intimate or personal. I carry her inborn reserve. The minor problems of adolescence, boys, pimples, the first menstruation, the first brassiere -- all great embarrassments to me -- were taken care of quickly and with a minimum of fuss, and I kept my feelings to myself. She was always there if I needed her. She never understood my revulsion at the dresses and pretty clothes she wanted me to wear when I wore faded blue jeans and too-large T-shirts, or why I let my hair go long and wild and stayed by myself, obstinate and sullen and full of unshared fantasies. I never meant to be rude or rebellious, but I was. I never felt unloved.



Paul Bunyan said...

So, Lee looks like you and I acted like you...

pepektheassassin said...

hehe. I guess. I think you all led pretty vivid fantasy lives. Yours was just more of the sullen unshared kind. Or maybe they all were, how would I know?

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